its been a while that I've been observing people around myself... their reactions.. their reasons.. everything..its funny how we all have our set of good things and bad things to deal with.. yet some of us get so excited at poking into other people's lives!! AND!! for no reason at all... at times i feel really disturbed at how much energy people waste in pondering about stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with them... haah!! the latest fad being " arre ladki jawan ho gayi hai.. ab iske liye ladka dekhna shuru karo"... oh puh leez!! gimme a BREAK... :x
Indian families seem to have no other goal in life than finding a good match for their daughters.... uh sorry... other people's daughters !! and lets see what GOOD means... ummm.. "aji ladka kamata acha hai.. ek dum shahrukh khan jaisa dikhta hai... badi gaadi hai..1000 gajj ki kothi...aur kya chahiye?? '"
well!! what does one do with a badi gaadi and 1000 gajj ji kothi if one doesn't know the guy?? or even if one does , but ain't prepared??huh.. its a neva endin debate!! :X :O
but this one track minded Indian society wont let us youngsters live in peace.. if a person ain't married .. their life is looked upon as incomplete.. i agree that its important to marry.. but at what cost?? kids are brought up to be professionals and street smart people who can earn well and look after themselves.. then why at the most crucial times of their lives are they put into this hot soup of tasting the 'shadi ka laddu'?? can they not see this clearly that every thing gets into place at its own pace?? after all when I'm hanging in the middle of nothing,, struggling hard to make an identity.. why push me into shaadi and rather make me lose my identity all together?? its almost annoying to see this happening to people my age all around!! guys haven't matured .. girls ain't prepared.. and before they even realize what they're game for.. ah well. its too late!! a friend of mine is in the exact same position.. its logical.. and its very clear that its not yet the time to tie the knot.. but confused is she and even more confused and disoriented seem her parents!! she's going ahead with it and its scary to imagine how life's gonna be when one's so unprepared as she is right now!! i feel worried and i feel a sea of emotions.. anger and rage at times and pity and helplessness at others... :O
